Bold Reflection: The sweet spot for parents

Thoughts & Reflections

Consider jotting down a few notes, perhaps in a journal or notebook.

 

What are some ways you know you’re bored? Or overwhelmed? What does your brain do or your body? Do you feel like your head is spinning or do your palms get sweaty or do you start thinking...

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The Sweet Spot for Parents

We can’t complete this mini-dive into flow without landing on the challenge/skill balance.

The challenge/skill balance is finding that sweet spot where learning isn’t too hard and it isn’t too easy. Take a moment right now and think about those moments in your day that you might...

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Bold Reflection: How do you know how you're doing?

Thoughts & Reflections

Consider jotting down a few notes, perhaps in a journal or notebook.

 

Practice giving specific feedback within your family and friend group. Instead of just saying you like someone’s hair for example, you might say something like, “Your haircut frames...

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How Do You Know How Your Doing?

Just-in-time feedback helps us stay present and propel forward.

 

In life we need to know what we’re doing (clear goals), but we also need to know how we might do it even better (just-in-time feedback).

 

In order to get the most out of feedback, we need to be present in the...

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Bold Reflection: Where are you Going?

 

Thoughts & Reflections

Consider jotting down a few notes, perhaps in a journal or notebook.

 

Last week, we talked about clear goals and creating the life you want. You might consider playing the what do you want game with yourself and see what arises. Be relentless and...

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Where are you going?

A quote from well-known music teacher and conductor Nadia Boulanger: 

"Anyone who acts without paying attention to what he is doing is wasting his life. I'd go so far as to say life is denied by lack of attention, whether it be to cleaning windows or trying to write a masterpiece."

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Bold Reflection: HQL for YOURSELF

 

Thoughts & Reflections

Consider jotting down a few notes, perhaps in a journal or notebook.

 

What are our twenty curiosities?

 

List one or two that you feel especially excited about and that ideally intersect with other curiosities.

 

Start to poke around the curiosity...

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HQL for YOURSELF

Are you interested in a high-quality leisure life while raising kids?
 
Do you ever lie in bed at night and feel like you’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way? Raising little humans is a joy, but most of us probably have those days where we are exhausted, stressed and wondering how...

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Creating a high-quality leisure life for yourself

Do you ever lie in bed at night and feel like you’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way? Raising little humans is a joy, but most of us probably have those days where we are exhausted, stressed and wondering how we’re going to wake up the next day and do it all again.

 

We all...

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Bold Reflection: HQL for Kids

Thoughts & Reflections

Consider jotting down a few notes, perhaps in a journal or notebook.

 

Leisure Activities

Here are a few examples, but expose your child to many options and see what might spark curiosity. 

  • Sports, both team (such as soccer or volleyball) and more individual...
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HQL for Kids: The Value of a High-Quality Leisure Life

It may not work well just to take our kids’ phones away or limit screen usage without something to put in its place. While each family has their own comfort level and belief system around technology usage, you may want to continue to monitor the balance. The advantages and disadvantages...

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Bold Reflection: The need for solitude

Thoughts & Reflections

Consider jotting down a few notes, perhaps in a journal or notebook.

 

How do you feel about screen usage, in general? In your own child?  

What parameters will you set (or wish you had set) as your child grows and develops?  

What are the positives and...

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